Sunday, 29 July 2007
Action speaks louder than words
Sometimes due to our innate self protection mechanism in us, we choose to not speak what we really meant...coz it will show out our most vulnerable self...it reveals to others what we r tinking abt...e older we grows, e more we become like that...however actions usually will tell or give an indication of wat one is tinking abt...
How many times hv we ever tell our parents that we realli luv them and appreciate them for their efforts? To some of us, it may b none...whereas the most of us will b definitely not more than our 10 fingers...this is juz one classic example of how we hv become so uncomfortable in telling others wat we realli feel...being in a conservative society doesn't help too coz it does not encourage voicing out our opinions and recall how we were told to keep quiet when adults were in their discussion...this also adds to not speaking what we realli wan and wat we realli meant....
Speaking is realli an art, isn't it? if u r those that hope to be liked by others, u hv to learn the technique of being tactful w the appropriate use of words and right body language...if u wan others to understand you, u hv to ensure that your hint is correct if ur not explicitly saying it out...well, normally humans r implicit....so i tink the best way to understand someone is through his/her actions coz oni one who cares will bother abt u...be it nice wrds or nt, if one cares to talk to u, regardless of your bad or good, the person muz b one who hv your self interest at heart...of coz this does not apply to hypocrites....
ps: ani1 noe of a gd arcade place, do tell mi k...i want to win a soft toy for myself as a gift for myself
How many times hv we ever tell our parents that we realli luv them and appreciate them for their efforts? To some of us, it may b none...whereas the most of us will b definitely not more than our 10 fingers...this is juz one classic example of how we hv become so uncomfortable in telling others wat we realli feel...being in a conservative society doesn't help too coz it does not encourage voicing out our opinions and recall how we were told to keep quiet when adults were in their discussion...this also adds to not speaking what we realli wan and wat we realli meant....
Speaking is realli an art, isn't it? if u r those that hope to be liked by others, u hv to learn the technique of being tactful w the appropriate use of words and right body language...if u wan others to understand you, u hv to ensure that your hint is correct if ur not explicitly saying it out...well, normally humans r implicit....so i tink the best way to understand someone is through his/her actions coz oni one who cares will bother abt u...be it nice wrds or nt, if one cares to talk to u, regardless of your bad or good, the person muz b one who hv your self interest at heart...of coz this does not apply to hypocrites....
ps: ani1 noe of a gd arcade place, do tell mi k...i want to win a soft toy for myself as a gift for myself
i look upon the moon and stars at Sunday, July 29, 2007
0 stars were shining bright even without the moon
0 stars were shining bright even without the moon