Thursday, 1 May 2008
Pre-mothers' day celebration
Went to IMM today with mum, aunt, bros, uncles and ah ma...went to honsoi restaurant to hv dinner...guess i wasn't quite used to dining at exp places...though i like jap cusine, i dun realli hv e appetite...initially i wanted to call this Mackerel fish, but mum sd it was too small and she hint that i shld choose another...so she suggested salmon or "xue yue" but i dun feel like hving it actually...so i sd i wan unagi then...aunt saw it and sd dat e price was nt worth it, suggested me to call e set meal w unagi...sigh, i obliged coz yes i agree w her reasoning and also i was nt e one footing e bill...i wanted to call e side unagi disk actually is coz i din wan to hv any time pressure to eating my food...but sharing w someone else w one one plate kind of make this impossible...not wanting to spoil the mood, i juz agree...aniwae it is to celebrate mother's day for ah ma....
as usual, ah ma cannot make out what is really happening...but still she dotes on me a lot...kept asking if i was full and even offered me her food...though she cannot make out what is really happening, i am glad she is no longer sad...
sometimes i dunno if i shld empathize 2rd uncle or he is just not understandable...i know he wants to scrimp and save...but some money which ought to be spent cannot be saved...his fall make his hand so swollen but yet he only visited e doctor once even despite the fact that his hand is still swollen...i really hoped he heed small aunt and mum's advice to go n see e doctor again...e one at bukit batok which is pretty good one...doesnt he find that e swollen hand result in lots of inconvenience for him, even holding chopsticks seems like a hard chore now for him...i hope he dun cycle again coz he is not in a good position to do so, given that he is limping in e first place and his sense of balance is nt realli v good...shldnt save money on e bus ride!!!coz he is risking his life...i hope he can weigh e pros and cons properly b4 he shld decide to embark on such dangerous stuffs again...
i also hope that e maid will realli treat ah ma well, look after her well...coz sometimes i cant help wondering if she is doing her job dutifully...like paying more attention to ah ma's needs and not only attending to her when requested...i mean more meticulous care...i dun tink we treat her badly...though sometimes it might need a little more patience, still her job is not really dat difficult until that she finds it unmanagable...it is inevitable that when one grows old, e things that we used to find it easy gets hard...so a little more patience and care would really be appreciated in this case...im sure no one like to be treated w little patient when we grow old right? so let's start by making this world a little kinder
as usual, ah ma cannot make out what is really happening...but still she dotes on me a lot...kept asking if i was full and even offered me her food...though she cannot make out what is really happening, i am glad she is no longer sad...
sometimes i dunno if i shld empathize 2rd uncle or he is just not understandable...i know he wants to scrimp and save...but some money which ought to be spent cannot be saved...his fall make his hand so swollen but yet he only visited e doctor once even despite the fact that his hand is still swollen...i really hoped he heed small aunt and mum's advice to go n see e doctor again...e one at bukit batok which is pretty good one...doesnt he find that e swollen hand result in lots of inconvenience for him, even holding chopsticks seems like a hard chore now for him...i hope he dun cycle again coz he is not in a good position to do so, given that he is limping in e first place and his sense of balance is nt realli v good...shldnt save money on e bus ride!!!coz he is risking his life...i hope he can weigh e pros and cons properly b4 he shld decide to embark on such dangerous stuffs again...
i also hope that e maid will realli treat ah ma well, look after her well...coz sometimes i cant help wondering if she is doing her job dutifully...like paying more attention to ah ma's needs and not only attending to her when requested...i mean more meticulous care...i dun tink we treat her badly...though sometimes it might need a little more patience, still her job is not really dat difficult until that she finds it unmanagable...it is inevitable that when one grows old, e things that we used to find it easy gets hard...so a little more patience and care would really be appreciated in this case...im sure no one like to be treated w little patient when we grow old right? so let's start by making this world a little kinder
i look upon the moon and stars at Thursday, May 01, 2008
0 stars were shining bright even without the moon
0 stars were shining bright even without the moon